Do you like what you see in front of you, in the form of the people you are attracting?
Everyone you attract to you is a mirror of some part of yourself.
Consider this: There is no relationship out there.
The real relationship is the relationship with yourself that manifests in the physical form of a person that you attract to you.
If you don't like who you are attracting into your life or what you are attracting from your current partner, trying to change the other person is a recipe for major suffering and frustration.
There are so many relationship books giving you tips and advice to get what you want from your partner. But you really don't have control of other people's actions or reactions.
Trying to control your partner to be a certain way in order for you to be happy is a futile waste of time.
What you do have control over and can change is yourself.
As YOU change, then so will the potential partners that you attract and are attracted to.
As you change, so will your way of being in a relationship.
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