HOW TO MAKE YOUR RELATIONSHIP A 10 OUT OF 10 IMMEDIATELY.
DR. NATURAL, RELATIONSHIP COUNSELOR, 718-783-3465 JOIN WWW.TEMPLEOFILLUMINATION.NING.COM
1.) Have a meeting with your relationship partner with no distractions and phones turned off or put away for at least a half hour.
2.) Both of you get a pen and pad and sit facing each other but far away from each other whereas you cannot see what each other is writing. 3.) From a scale from 1 - 10, 1 is toxic and you are breaking up and 10 is the ideal relationship. Both of you rate your relationship on paper with a number from 1 - 10 without either of you showing and / or verbalizing the number to your partner. 4.) Then both of you list all of the ways you and your partner can make your relationship a 10 again without either of you showing your partner what you are writing. 5.) Switch papers with your partner. Now the real discussion begins. In many instances it usually plays out like a bargaining situation like for example; if you stop, start, increase and / or decrease a particular activity, communication, etc. that I like or do not like what are you willing to do and / or not do in exchange to move the relationship closer to being a 10?
Whatever is agreed upon should be in writing with both partners having a copy of this agreement. Many times, you will need a third party in which both of you trust to be fair to be involved to make sure both parties are playing and / or fighting fair and that both parties are being sincere within the framework of the new agreement. I, Dr. Natural, am available free of charge in order to assist in the progression of harmonious relationships. Based upon this simple and free exercise you will know for sure if you should continue in your present relationship or are you simply wasting your time. It is better to know now than later. If for whatever reason you do not fully trust your partner to being sincere and you are considering a committed monogamous relationship you may want to consider getting a professional lie detector done on both of you to see if you both truly love each other and are both of you being faithful to each other.
6.) HOW TO FIND AND KEEP YOUR SOULMATE - DR. NATURAL 718-783-3465 WWW.TEMPLEOFILLUMINATION.NING.COM We must truly love ourselves first in order to truly attract someone who truly loves us. -LAW OF ATTRACTION How does one find their soul mate? Identify your life's purpose and make sure your intended and or desired future life partner's life's purpose is compatible with your life's purpose so you both can grow together in healthy harmonious manner. Make sure you feel emotionally safe in expressing your honest thoughts and feelings with this individual. Make sure both parties are committed to personal growth on a regular basis including counseling from an agreed upon third party. How do both individuals treat other people? Is there anything either of you intend to change about the other person either before or after you enter into a committed monogamous relationship? And if so, what type of changes and is both parties willing to commit to those changes?
What keeps a relationship strong? TRUST, COMMUNICATION, INTIMACY, SENSE OF HUMOR, SHARING TASKS, GET AWAY TIME WITHOUT BUSINESS OR CHILDREN. DAILY EXCHANGES, CALL, MESSAGE, ETC., SHARING COMMON GOALS AND INTERESTS. GIVING EACH OTHER SPACE TO GROW WITHOUT FEELING INSECURE. GIVING EACH OTHER A SENSE OF BELONGING AND ASSURANCES OF COMMITMENT. If any of these qualities are missing the relationship can fail which is why most relationships do fail. 7.) Above all else you must be sincere to yourself first and truly love yourself first! If you agree with the above statements call me at 718-783-3465 347-760-8147 Dr. Natural
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